Recent research shows that older Americans are happier than their younger counterparts. While a certain amount of distress comes with the territory (health, loss of loved ones, etc), it appears that the elderly have learned to be content. This is due, in part, to adjusted (lowered) expectations. (April 2008 American Sociological Review)
I don't want to wait until I'm 80 to experience contentment. Since crossing the 50 yard line, I've learned to adjust my expectations but it's not a compromise or lowered standards -- it's about placing my expectations in the right framework. I am learning that living a life that honors the Lord brings a certain peace and joy to my daily living. I wish I'd learn that lesson sooner.
Paul says it so eloquently in Philippians 4:11-13.
"...I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or want. I can do everything through Him who gives me strength."
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