Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Blackberry 2

...the importance of our backstories ~ the legacies from our parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents that influence who we are and what we become.  It was an encouragement to me to look at both painful and fortuitous events from my past as I work to weave past, present and future into a whole.  (from forward by Debbie Griffith for The Blackberry Bush by David Housholder)

It took a long time for me to look at the painful parts of my personal past and accept that they are integral pieces of my puzzle.   I wanted to forget or pretend they were from another life, another time, but really they make up the continuum of who I am.  My life didn't roll out the way I expected it would, but then whose really does?  Even when we are plugged into our Maker, we have to let go of the expectation that we are in complete control our our destiny.

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